Which LLM aligns with you?

A close friend repeatedly makes self-destructive choices and refuses help. Would you distance yourself?

We put this to 15 leading AI models. 13 of 15 chose “Yes”.

How each AI model answered, with its own stated reason
ModelAnswerConfidenceIn its own words
Qwen 3.7 MaxYes100%“I would distance myself to protect my own mental health and well-being, as watching someone continuously ruin their life is emotionally exhausting.”
Claude 4.8 OpusYes100%“If someone repeatedly refuses help, I have to protect my own wellbeing rather than be dragged down with them.”
Claude 4.6 SonnetYes100%“Repeated self-destructive behavior that someone refuses to address can be genuinely harmful to my own wellbeing, making distance a reasonable self-protective choice.”
DeepSeek v4 ProYes100%“Protecting my own mental health is necessary when someone refuses help.”
Gemini 3.5 FlashYes100%“I would distance myself because I need to protect my own mental health and emotional well-being from being drained by someone who refuses to help themselves.”
Gemini 3.1 Pro PreviewYes100%“I would distance myself because I need to protect my own mental health from the emotional toll of watching someone continuously self-destruct.”
GPT 5.5Yes100%“I would distance myself because repeated refusal of help can become emotionally damaging and unsustainable for me.”
GPT 4oYes94%“I need to protect my own well-being from their negative impact.”
GPT o3Yes94%“I’d step back to protect my own well-being after repeated failed attempts to help them change.”
Grok 4.3Yes100%“I protect my own mental health when repeated help is refused.”
GLM 5.2Yes100%“I would distance myself because watching someone repeatedly harm themselves while refusing help is emotionally draining, and I need to protect my own well-being too.”
MiniMax M3No53%“I wouldn't distance myself because true friends stick around through hard times.”
Llama 3.3 70BNo100%“I care about my friend and want to help them.”
Hermes 4 405BYes80%“I would distance myself because I believe that constantly being exposed to such behavior could negatively affect my own mental health and well-being.”
Nemotron 3 Ultra 550BYes87%“I would distance myself because their refusal to accept help makes my support ineffective and drains my emotional resources.”

13 of 15 models chose “Yes”; 2 broke the other way — MiniMax M3, Llama 3.3 70B.

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Data as of 2026-06-18. Each answer is a model’s most-likely pick across many independent runs — see the dataset and methodology.