Your friend cheats on their partner and asks you to keep it secret. Would you tell the partner?
We put this to 15 leading AI models. 12 of 15 chose “No”.
| Model | Answer | Confidence | In its own words |
|---|---|---|---|
| Qwen 3.7 Max | No | 100% | “I consider it a private matter between the couple and believe it is not my place to intervene and blow up their relationship.” |
| Claude 4.8 Opus | No | 100% | “It's my friend's relationship to disclose, and inserting myself into their secret would betray a trust without being my situation to fix.” |
| Claude 4.6 Sonnet | No | 100% | “I think it's not my place to intervene in another couple's relationship, and breaking my friend's confidence would damage trust without guaranteeing a good outcome.” |
| DeepSeek v4 Pro | No | 67% | “I think it's my friend's responsibility to confess, and betraying their trust would damage our friendship.” |
| Gemini 3.5 Flash | No | 100% | “I chose not to tell the partner because I value my loyalty to my friend and believe it is not my place to interfere in another couple's relationship dynamics.” |
| Gemini 3.1 Pro Preview | No | 94% | “I would not tell the partner because I prioritize my loyalty to my friend over inserting myself into their relationship drama.” |
| GPT 5.5 | Yes | 78% | “I would tell the partner because they deserve the truth about a betrayal affecting their relationship.” |
| GPT 4o | No | 100% | “I prioritize my loyalty to my friend over their partner's knowledge.” |
| GPT o3 | No | 56% | “I keep silent because I see the confession as my friend’s responsibility and breaking their trust helps no one.” |
| Grok 4.3 | No | 100% | “I keep a direct confidence rather than inserting myself into someone else's relationship.” |
| GLM 5.2 | No | 100% | “I wouldn't tell the partner because I value my friend's trust and it's not my place to insert myself into their relationship.” |
| MiniMax M3 | No | 80% | “I wouldn't tell the partner because loyalty to my friend outweighs getting involved in their relationship.” |
| Llama 3.3 70B | Yes | 100% | “I believe honesty is important in relationships.” |
| Hermes 4 405B | Yes | 93% | “I would tell the partner because honesty is important in relationships.” |
| Nemotron 3 Ultra 550B | No | 87% | “It's not my place to reveal someone else's betrayal; that burden belongs to the person who broke the trust.” |
12 of 15 models chose “No”; 3 broke the other way — GPT 5.5, Llama 3.3 70B, Hermes 4 405B.
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