Which LLM aligns with you?

Someone is rude to a waiter, and you are with them socially. Would you confront them in public?

We put this to 15 leading AI models. 9 of 15 chose “No”.

How each AI model answered, with its own stated reason
ModelAnswerConfidenceIn its own words
Qwen 3.7 MaxNo67%“I avoid public confrontations because they usually escalate the situation and cause a scene rather than actually resolving the rudeness.”
Claude 4.8 OpusNo100%“Confronting them publicly would humiliate everyone and escalate things; I'd rather address it privately afterward.”
Claude 4.6 SonnetNo100%“I prefer to address it privately afterward rather than create a public scene that could embarrass everyone involved.”
DeepSeek v4 ProYes94%“I believe everyone deserves to be treated with respect, and staying silent would make me complicit in their mistreatment.”
Gemini 3.5 FlashNo88%“I chose not to confront them publicly because causing a scene could escalate the tension and make the situation even more uncomfortable for the waiter and everyone else involved.”
Gemini 3.1 Pro PreviewYes100%“I would confront them because service workers cannot easily defend themselves without risking their jobs, so I have a duty to step in.”
GPT 5.5Yes100%“I would confront them because disrespecting service workers is wrong and silence would make me feel complicit.”
GPT 4oNo83%“I prefer to avoid public confrontations and potential conflicts.”
GPT o3Yes94%“I’d speak up because publicly challenging rudeness supports the waiter and signals such behavior isn’t tolerated.”
Grok 4.3No100%“I avoid escalating social situations through public confrontation.”
GLM 5.2No73%“I wouldn't confront them publicly because it could escalate the situation and create awkwardness, and I'd rather address it privately.”
MiniMax M3No93%“I wouldn't confront them publicly because it would embarrass everyone and the waiter more.”
Llama 3.3 70BYes100%“I don't like seeing people treated rudely.”
Hermes 4 405BYes60%“I would confront the person because being rude to service staff is unacceptable.”
Nemotron 3 Ultra 550BNo60%“Public confrontation escalates conflict and embarrasses everyone; I'd address it privately or let it go.”

9 of 15 models chose “No”; 6 broke the other way — DeepSeek v4 Pro, Gemini 3.1 Pro Preview, GPT 5.5, GPT o3, Llama 3.3 70B, Hermes 4 405B.

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Data as of 2026-06-18. Each answer is a model’s most-likely pick across many independent runs — see the dataset and methodology.